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Break that generational curse



In every family, there exists certain strongholds. Of course some families ignore these strongholds, however, the nature in which they silently cause destruction is evident in familial behaviors, attitudes, and relationships.
I always tell my clients that there is at least ONE chosen person in a family that can break the cycle of generational strongholds (curse) from manifesting. Whether the cycle is created by broken/ unhappy marriages, financial issues, negative attitudes, substance abuse, violent behaviors, anger, etc, these strongholds often get passed down through the family- however, they can be broken.
It takes one person to realize that the stronghold exists and take extreme efforts not to PERPETUATE it in their life.
Through prayer, reflection, counseling, you can make positive changes for yourself that will impact the next generation of your family. Remember it only takes ONE person to notice the cycle and make a change by breaking it. You are not defined by issues from your past, your parents past, nor your grandparents past. Each day you are given a new opportunity to make healthy choices. You will be surprised how these healthy choices will benefit not only you but the children that are to enter your family in the future.

Break the cycle.

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